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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Messy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2023
  • Post category:Times and Seasons
  • Post last modified:June 13, 2025

The challenge in any time of seasonal shift is not to let the messiness keep you from ending what needs to be ended and starting what needs to be begun.

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Women, prophecy and the church

  • Post published:December 14, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

"A woman with the gift of prophecy has to be very careful," the preacher said. "What she hears from God, she is not to speak but to take to her prayer closet.”

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Still be my vision

  • Post published:November 24, 2023
  • Post category:Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 13, 2024

Mini-post. A prayer song that gave me words when I had none.

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God is hunting for hearts

  • Post published:November 16, 2023
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:May 21, 2025

God is hunting for hearts. “Not hearts of paper and lace,” he says. “I’m seeking human hearts that are open, tender, alive.”

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When evil seems invincible: Two surprising sources of hope

  • Post published:November 9, 2023
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing
  • Post last modified:June 13, 2025

Where two malignant narcissists ruled, so did ruthlessness. Where evil seemed invincible, Mordecai and Esther seized on two surprising sources of hope and life.

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Code blue! Breathing crises in the church

  • Post published:November 2, 2023
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:July 16, 2024

When God’s people push against, instead of moving with, his Spirit, he knows the situation is dire. He sounds the alarm: My people aren’t breathing! Code blue!

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Breath of God – key to life

  • Post published:October 27, 2023
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:July 16, 2024

Receiving and releasing the Breath of God is key to getting the toxins out and the life-giving stuff in, no matter what you're going through.

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Dear traumatized one, I pray you float

  • Post published:September 14, 2023
  • Post category:My Story/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 2, 2025

Was there grief in that ark? Yes! Was there tension? Absolutely. And anger. And fear. So many emotions; such great loss. Yet through it all, they were upheld.

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Illusionists! The abusers we have not seen

  • Post published:August 17, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 7, 2025

Some illusionists fool us to amuse us. Abusers and abusive systems fool us to control us. Freedom and life hinge on seeing the illusionists we have not seen.

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Divorcing: When God does what he hates

  • Post published:July 7, 2023
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 10, 2025

Once, in Malachi, God may have said that he hates divorce. Repeatedly, in Jeremiah, God reveals how much he hates divorcing. Repeatedly, he laments the nonstop betrayals that did, and could, bring him to do it.

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