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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Woman walking on the water, you are ordained

  • Post published:March 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 19, 2025

When asked if I wanted to be ordained, I waited on the Lord. I’m still in awe! And I can encourage you: When he calls you to walk on the water to meet him – GO!

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This “good Christian girl” is a woman now

  • Post published:August 1, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 21, 2025

I was a “good Christian girl” until well into middle age. Then, God led me where I did not want to go, to show me what I desperately needed to see.

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A stunning yellow, black and white butterfly emerges from its cocoon attached to a rusty iron chair.

See! I am doing a new thing

  • Post published:June 13, 2024
  • Post category:Living Life/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 21, 2025

Nine months ago, I did not see renovation in my future. Now, I’m neck deep in refreshing my website. And I’m marveling at God’s renewing work in our lives.

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Exploited in the church, but Leah no more

  • Post published:May 16, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:March 10, 2025

“I’m Leah!” I cried. I had given myself to a church culture that had used me and used me, while profoundly rejecting my personhood, my adulthood, my worth, me.

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Earthquakes, trauma – and silences that erase

  • Post published:March 7, 2024
  • Post category:My Story/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 10, 2025

Any eerie, uneasy silence that minimizes or denies an earthquake - or any other trauma someone is facing - shouts to those willing to hear: Look deeper. Ask, Why?

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A spirit like Caleb’s – fully following God

  • Post published:February 14, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 11, 2025

At a crucial moment in my life, Henry Blackaby and Caleb of old encouraged me: Regardless which way anyone else is rowing, you be filled with following God.

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Dear traumatized one, I pray you float

  • Post published:September 14, 2023
  • Post category:My Story/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 2, 2025

Was there grief in that ark? Yes! Was there tension? Absolutely. And anger. And fear. So many emotions; such great loss. Yet through it all, they were upheld.

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A dark wooden fence with pointed, upright slats is worn, but reinforced and strong. It stands in Sri Lanka, a land where I watched the Lord break through.

The Lord who breaks open the way

  • Post published:May 22, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 23, 2025

“She cannot say that!” the woman yelled. Half a world from my home, she forbade me to invite the churched to repent. Then, we watched the Lord break through.

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Celebrity culture in the church

  • Post published:May 11, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:January 9, 2025

It’s so enticing, and so much a part of the US evangelical church culture. Yet the lure of celebrity can deceive us into agreeing with much that is not God.

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My beautiful, long-haired, brown-and-black cat Tessa sleeps on a pillow on the carpet in a shaft of sunlight.

Tessa and the lion’s den

  • Post published:December 29, 2022
  • Post category:My Story
  • Post last modified:March 12, 2025

My finicky and beloved cat Tessa lived for 17 years. She inspired this post one night in 2004 – the year I first found myself in a den with lions that tear people apart.

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