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Key Truths for seeking hearts

Seeing and healing from what is toxic in the church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Prayer of the Body, for the Body, of Christ

  • Post published:October 31, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:October 31, 2025

Would you pray with me “that, as the Bride of Christ, we will continue to learn to ‘walk in beauty’ with our fellow man and God." - Mark Charles

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Toxic church – and a promise of real belonging

  • Post published:October 24, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:October 26, 2025

Long ago and still today, God promises his traumatized, grieving, scattered people: I will be a sanctuary to you. I will protect you. I will gather you back.

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Masters of misdirection and mesmerizing fog

  • Post published:October 16, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Elijah Blessing/Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:November 12, 2025

People like King Ahab spend their lives using and abusing others, to get what they want. They also mesmerize and misdirect us, so we won’t see them as they are.

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Spiritual schizophrenia and the two-headed snake

  • Post published:October 1, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Elijah Blessing/Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:November 12, 2025

"How long will you try to go both ways?" Elijah cried. Where people identified with God cling to deep double-mindedness, they empower a two-headed snake.

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Christ alone: Counting the cost, going with God

  • Post published:July 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:October 26, 2025

The only way to walk free from the roles and expectations that abusive systems force upon you is to keep following Jesus as he gets the system out of you.

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Sabotage, coerce, shame: Bullying in the church

  • Post published:June 4, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:September 30, 2025

It’s agonizing to be bullied – and it can happen to an adult, in the church. Supposedly godly people, seeking to control, plot to sabotage, coerce, shame.

Bucking the system: Pencils neatly lined up on a paper point to a row of empty check-boxes. But one red-lead pencil points the other way, to a red outline of a heart.

Bucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus

  • Post published:April 2, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:October 26, 2025

Jesus grew up in a religious system God had instigated, and people had hijacked to use for their own ends. Jesus’ life shows us when and how to buck the system.

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Woman walking on the water, you are ordained

  • Post published:March 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:November 11, 2025

When asked if I wanted to be ordained, I waited on the Lord. I’m still in awe! And I can encourage you: When he calls you to walk on the water to meet him – GO!

Young woman looking weary and burdened rests against washer door in laundromat.

Women, false responsibility and the church

  • Post published:January 11, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:May 28, 2025

A distorted view of “women’s responsibility” is deeply embedded in the church but often hidden in a fog. Here’s what people may expect of us – but God does not.

Standing beside the Rhône, looking out on the river’s quiet waters and, in shadows on the far bank, Avignon, France. Just visible, against the blue sky, the outline of the bell tower of Avignon Cathedral and the massive roofline of the Palace of the Popes.

“Burned out on religion? I will give you rest”

  • Post published:December 5, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:March 10, 2025

“Religion almost killed me,” she said, then paused, waiting for my response. I had no words. But I believed her – and I could identify. She saw it in my eyes.

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