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Key Truths for seeking hearts

Seeing and healing from what is toxic in the church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Spiritual schizophrenia and the two-headed snake

  • Post published: October 1, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Elijah Blessing/Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified: August 29, 2026

"How long will you try to go both ways?" Elijah cried. When God's people opt into spiritual schizophrenia, they empower a two-headed snake.

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Counting the cost, going with God

  • Post published: July 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified: September 10, 2026

Counting the cost, going with God, may not look as we have thought. It may mean saying yes to the Lord Jesus and following him where our church culture forbids.

Bullying/mobbing: Beige wooden peg "people" grouped on dark concrete so that it appears a whole crowd is against one

Sabotage, coerce, shame: Bullying in the church

  • Post published: June 4, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified: October 2, 2026

It’s agonizing to be bullied – and it can happen to an adult, in the church. People eager to control, plot to sabotage, coerce, shame.

Bucking the system: Pencils neatly lined up on a paper point to a row of empty check-boxes. But one red-lead pencil points the other way, to a red outline of a heart.

Bucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus

  • Post published: April 2, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified: April 24, 2026

Jesus grew up in a religious system God had instigated, and people had hijacked to use for their own ends. Jesus’ life shows us when and how to buck the system.

Sunset over Sea of Galilee, October 2009

Walking on the water to Jesus

  • Post published: March 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified: September 3, 2026

Rejected by church systems and their leaders. Yet profoundly affirmed by God. Here's my story of walking on the water to meet Jesus when he made the way.

Young woman looking weary and burdened rests against washer door in laundromat.

Women, false responsibility and the church

  • Post published: January 11, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified: September 28, 2026

A distorted view of “women’s responsibility” is deeply embedded in the church. Here’s what people may expect of us – but God does not.

Bronze monument high on a tall base: A soldier stands facing a sitting woman with a child hugging her on either side. Woman looks up to soldier; he looks down to her. She holds his right hand in both of hers.

This “good Christian girl” is a woman now

  • Post published: August 1, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified: September 3, 2026

Grown, yet unaware my view of women was far more Confederate than biblical, I was a good Christian girl. This girl is a woman now, a woman going with God.

The red, white and blue "Christian" flag and the red, white and blue American flag fly, each on a separate pole, side by side.

O say, can you see … what I did not?

  • Post published: July 11, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified: October 26, 2026

Evil can deceive us far more subtly and far more thoroughly than we have believed possible. O say, can you see … what I did not?.

Hazy view from the pew of a church service: People are standing, some with hands upraised, before "Jesus" written in huge block letters on a massive white screen.

Recognizing the world in church clothing

  • Post published: June 20, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified: October 2, 2026

Lord Jesus, show me when the church is not the church. Expose the world in church clothing – a system competing with God for my heart.

Hand of woman wearing "Sunday dress," bracelet and ring rests on top wire of a barbed wire fence. Hazy green fields and trees lie beyond the fence.

Exploited in the church, but Leah no more

  • Post published: May 16, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified: August 7, 2026

As unloved Leah did Jacob, a woman can give herself to a church culture that exploits her – while rejecting her personhood, her adulthood, her worth, her.

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