Skip to content
  • Home
  • Come out! Be free!
  • Who I am
  • What I post
  • Books
    • Return to Your Rest: A Spirit-to-spirit Journey
    • We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church
    • The Elijah Blessing: An Undivided Heart
    • The Esther Blessing: Grace to Reign in Life
    • What About Women: A Spirit-to-spirit Exposé
  • Connect
Menu Close
  • Home
  • Come out! Be free!
  • Who I am
  • What I post
  • Books
    • Return to Your Rest: A Spirit-to-spirit Journey
    • We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church
    • The Elijah Blessing: An Undivided Heart
    • The Esther Blessing: Grace to Reign in Life
    • What About Women: A Spirit-to-spirit Exposé
  • Connect
Key Truths

Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

Bucking the system: Pencils neatly lined up on a paper point to a row of empty check-boxes. But one red-lead pencil points the other way, to a red outline of a heart.

Bucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus

  • Post published:April 2, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

Jesus grew up in a religious system God had instigated, and people had hijacked to use for their own ends. Jesus’ life shows us when and how to buck the system.

Continue ReadingBucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus
Red, pink and white rose petals, along with tiny yellow leaves, lie scattered on gray paving stones

To the exiles scattered by toxic church

  • Post published:December 19, 2022
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 13, 2025

Maybe the church has become bewildering to you. Leaders you trusted and people you respected are acting in ways that do not reflect who Jesus is, nor what they profess to believe. They have turned on anyone among them who appears to threaten the status quo. What is going on?

Continue ReadingTo the exiles scattered by toxic church
Against a snowy background stands a black iron gate, locked with multiple padlocks of different colors and shapes.

Shunning in the church

  • Post published:August 25, 2022
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

Any group that shuns is withholding your deepest needs in order to control you. That’s the opposite of loving you. It’s people you trusted, trying to erase you.

Continue ReadingShunning in the church
Two deer drink from a mountain stream that runs through a wooded valley beside a gray slat fence. A shaft of sunlight shines down from above.

My cup overflows: Resting in God’s favor

  • Post published:January 1, 2022
  • Post category:From: Return to Your Rest
  • Post last modified:May 28, 2025

I praise you, Lord my Shepherd. You have overcome for me all the shame that ever has or ever will attach to me. You are teaching me to overcome it too. By your grace, I drink deeply of your favor, and it restores my rest.

Continue ReadingMy cup overflows: Resting in God’s favor
Woman on mountaintop, above the clouds. She stands with her feet toward the camera, but her face turned away into the wind, as she looks out on the clouds behind and below her.

I will change your name

  • Post published:August 13, 2021
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2025

No longer wounded, outcast, lonely, afraid - your new name shall be Confidence, Joyfulness, Overcoming one, Faithfulness, Friend of God, One who seeks My face.

Continue ReadingI will change your name
Three gray wolves, standing together on a rock ledge, threatening, howling

Cliques in the church

  • Post published:April 22, 2021
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 14, 2025

Cliques are by nature, exclusive. Wherever they occur in the church landscape, they fragment the church. They prevent the people of God from becoming one.

Continue ReadingCliques in the church
A model church with steeple, set in a model train village. A circle of tiny toy people stand outside the front door.

Behind the façade in the SBC

  • Post published:March 12, 2021
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

All my life, I had been deceived by Good Christian appearances. Then, when pummeled and guilted to choose loyalty to a church system above all else, I saw.

Continue ReadingBehind the façade in the SBC
Deborah Brunt in a green garden, relaxed, smiling at the camera

Going with God

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2025

Choosing to go with God where my church culture had forbidden, I had no clue how much seeing and grieving lay ahead. And how very much love and life.

Continue ReadingGoing with God
Door to hope: An open door welcomes you into a sun room filled with plants and light.

A future filled with hope

  • Post published:October 6, 2018
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2025

It's the best-loved verse in Jeremiah, and God says it to exiles. He announces to people who feel they have no future at all: "I know what I have planned for you. I have plans to prosper you, not to harm you. I have plans to give you a future filled with hope."

Continue ReadingA future filled with hope
A lighthouse stands on an island near other tiny, scattered islands.

A promise of real belonging

  • Post published:August 22, 2018
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 10, 2025

Long ago and far away, God promised a scattered people, “I will be a sanctuary to you during your time in exile,” and, “I will gather you back.”

Continue ReadingA promise of real belonging
Key Truths logo: In forest hangs a worn bronze key with the word, Restore, engraved on it. Text: Key Truths

Topics I write about

Explore more Key Truths

Keytruths.com (c) 2011-2024. All rights reserved.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible, New International Version (NIV) 2011.

  • Home
  • Come out! Be free!
  • Who I am
  • What I post
  • Books
    • Return to Your Rest: A Spirit-to-spirit Journey
    • We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church
    • The Elijah Blessing: An Undivided Heart
    • The Esther Blessing: Grace to Reign in Life
    • What About Women: A Spirit-to-spirit Exposé
  • Connect
Copyright - WordPress Theme by OceanWP
account android arrow-alt-circle-down arrow-alt-circle-left arrow-alt-circle-right arrow-alt-circle-up arrow-down arrow-left arrow-right arrow-up author bars behance blogger bluesky buffer caret-down caret-left caret-right caret-square-down caret-square-left caret-square-right caret-square-up caret-up cart-menu-1 cart-menu-2 cart-menu-3 cart-menu-4 categories chevron-down chevron-left chevron-right chevron-up clock close comments cookies copyright coupon-discount date-modified date-published discord double-arrows-down double-arrows-left double-arrows-right double-arrows-up dribbble envelope-open envelope eye facebook fax flickr foursquare github gmail google-drive grid-view hashtag hollow-ring homepage instagram ios level-down-alt level-up-alt line link linkedin list-view login logout long-arrow-alt-down long-arrow-alt-left long-arrow-alt-right long-arrow-alt-up mastodonmedium messenger mobile-menu mobile phone pinterest place qq quote-left quote-right quotes reading-time-hourglass reading-time-stopwatch reddit rss scroll-to-top search shazam shopping-bag shopping-cart side-panel-opening-2-left side-panel-opening-2-right side-panel-opening-left side-panel-opening-right skype slack small-arrow-down small-arrow-left small-arrow-right small-arrow-up sms snapchat soundcloud spinner spotify stackoverflow sync telegram threadstiktok times-circle tinder trello tripadvisor tumblr twitch twitter viber vimeo vine vkontakte website wechat whatsapp windows wishlist xing yelp youtube zoom