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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

Bucking the system: Pencils neatly lined up on a paper point to a row of empty check-boxes. But one red-lead pencil points the other way, to a red outline of a heart.

Bucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus

  • Post published:April 2, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:April 2, 2025

Jesus grew up in a religious system God had instigated, and people had hijacked to use for their own ends. Jesus’ life shows us when and how to buck the system.

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Sunset over Sea of Galilee, October 2009

Woman walking on the water, you are ordained

  • Post published:March 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 19, 2025

When asked if I wanted to be ordained, I waited on the Lord. I’m still in awe! And I can encourage you: When he calls you to walk on the water to meet him – GO!

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A spirit like Caleb’s – fully following God

  • Post published:February 14, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 11, 2025

At a crucial moment in my life, Henry Blackaby and Caleb of old encouraged me: Regardless which way anyone else is rowing, you be filled with following God.

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Poppies by the seashore at dawn - one of them reaching up above the others and framed by the sun's light

So blinded for so long, I choose light

  • Post published:September 18, 2020
  • Post category:My Story/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 12, 2025

Even when people I love fight against it, I choose light. As I dare to go with God where fear, obligation and guilt forbid, I find hope and joy. I choose life.

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Checklists, idols and loving God

  • Post published:July 7, 2020
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:January 12, 2025

The preacher urged people to love the Lord with all their hearts. Yet, tragically, he himself did not know how to do it. He could only offer a checklist.

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Closeup of cannon from the cover of my book, We Confess! The Civil War, the South, and the Church

Tell us about past events

  • Post published:June 6, 2020
  • Post category:From: We Confess!
  • Post last modified:August 1, 2024

What one bewildered, battered woman found, and dared to write, before patterns from the past began to replay in the present in such a visible, alarming way.

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Dance with me

  • Post published:October 22, 2018
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:March 18, 2024

Learning to dance with God means being vulnerable, flexible, brave, as he frees us from the paralysis of the religious and teaches us to move in sync with him.

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I let go

  • Post published:October 13, 2018
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:March 13, 2024

"I let go of all I have just to have all of You." - A song that has encouraged me in the night, "Worth It All," Meredith Andrews

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God is kind but not soft

  • Post published:May 12, 2017
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:March 18, 2024

Mini-post. "God is kind, but he's not soft ..." A notable Bible quote and an image of a courageous woman that encourage me to go with God.

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Path disappearing into woods, with this text: "So in the quietness they ready themselves. Together and alone Listening to the hush that is God They hear when it's time. Then they set out."

Lingering at a crossroads

  • Post published:November 9, 2015
  • Post category:Times and Seasons
  • Post last modified:March 13, 2024

Minipost. Encouragement sent to me from an artist friend. It begins: "Not everyone who lingers at a crossroads hesitates in indecision."

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