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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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When waiting is writhing and silence groans

  • Post published:June 13, 2025
  • Post category:Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:June 14, 2025

When we find ourselves writhing and groaning in the face of evil and grief, God is in it, giving us grace to “labor” in a way that births deliverance and life.

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Bucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus

  • Post published:April 2, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

Jesus grew up in a religious system God had instigated, and people had hijacked to use for their own ends. Jesus’ life shows us when and how to buck the system.

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To the exiles scattered by toxic church

  • Post published:December 19, 2022
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 13, 2025

Maybe the church has become bewildering to you. Leaders you trusted and people you respected are acting in ways that do not reflect who Jesus is, nor what they profess to believe. They have turned on anyone among them who appears to threaten the status quo. What is going on?

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Behind the façade in the SBC

  • Post published:March 12, 2021
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

All my life, I had been deceived by Good Christian appearances. Then, when pummeled and guilted to choose loyalty to a church system above all else, I saw.

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Going with God

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2025

Choosing to go with God where my church culture had forbidden, I had no clue how much seeing and grieving lay ahead. And how very much love and life.

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And the future starts now

  • Post published:October 26, 2018
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:January 9, 2025

Even in suffering, even in exile, may you find growing within you: A life energetic and blazing with holiness, conceived by God himself. Life healed and whole. Laughter and singing. Genuine faith proved genuine. Living hope. One-anothering love. A future that starts now.

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I let go

  • Post published:October 13, 2018
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:March 13, 2024

"I let go of all I have just to have all of You." - A song that has encouraged me in the night, "Worth It All," Meredith Andrews

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The narrow path with Jesus

  • Post published:October 7, 2013
  • Post category:Living Life
  • Post last modified:March 18, 2024

"The narrow path with Jesus for me has been exhilarating, but also lonely and difficult," wrote my new friend.

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