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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Love story, fairy-tale life? Caged bird singing? Esther

  • Post published:April 11, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing/Living Life
  • Post last modified:April 23, 2025

Have we seen Queen Esther as a beloved wife, living a fairy-tale life? If so, we’ve missed the abuse in her story and a surprising key to reigning in life.

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Defender of the forsaken – this is God

  • Post published:February 20, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 8, 2025

The Lord sees when the vulnerable are wrongly rejected. He hears when the helpless cry to him, and he champions them. Defender of the forsaken – this is God.

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Illusionists! The abusers we have not seen

  • Post published:August 17, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 7, 2025

Some illusionists fool us to amuse us. Abusers and abusive systems fool us to control us. Freedom and life hinge on seeing the illusionists we have not seen.

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Divorcing: When God does what he hates

  • Post published:July 7, 2023
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 10, 2025

Once, in Malachi, God may have said that he hates divorce. Repeatedly, in Jeremiah, God reveals how much he hates divorcing. Repeatedly, he laments the nonstop betrayals that did, and could, bring him to do it.

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Treachery and divorce: When God sees betrayal

  • Post published:June 15, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:May 19, 2025

If you have been betrayed by a spouse: The God who sees you has been there. He hates treachery. He calls out the treacherous - and he defends the betrayed.

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The blessing of rest

  • Post published:January 21, 2022
  • Post category:From: Return to Your Rest/My Story
  • Post last modified:March 12, 2025

Real rest is so different from what I had thought. It’s so much more expansive, and desirable, and enjoyable. And it’s so very vital. Thing is, I desperately needed real rest long before I knew I needed it. I had no clue how rest-deprived I was.

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Grace triumphs over power

  • Post published:October 3, 2018
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing
  • Post last modified:April 11, 2025

If you have suffered at the hands of the self-absorbed, the biblical book of Esther was written for you. Far from the fairy tale we've imagined, Esther's story shows us how to overcome the chaos and destruction wreaked by narcissists who care only for themselves.

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