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Seeing and healing from what is toxic in the church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Real royalty: Spectacle and grace in Esther

  • Post published:March 7, 2026
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing/Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:March 9, 2026

Esther’s story paints a picture of two types of reigning. One type turns on spectacle. The other flows from grace. “Which is real royalty?” Esther’s life asks.

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Reign of terror: Narcissism in Esther

  • Post published:March 3, 2026
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 9, 2026

Two people in power. One, highly offended. The other, easily exploited. Both, given over to evil. As in Esther, that can erupt into a reign of terror.

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Abusers like Ahab & Jezebel use one another

  • Post published:January 24, 2026
  • Post category:From: The Elijah Blessing/Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:March 19, 2026

They’re eerily alike: Ahab and Jezebel, who ruled in Elijah’s day. Men and women in church leadership who use one another in order to control everyone else.

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Masters of misdirection and mesmerizing fog

  • Post published:October 16, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Elijah Blessing/Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:December 6, 2025

People like King Ahab spend their lives using and abusing others, to get what they want. They also mesmerize and misdirect us, so we won’t see them as they are.

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Spiritual schizophrenia and the two-headed snake

  • Post published:October 1, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Elijah Blessing/Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:March 19, 2026

"How long will you try to go both ways?" Elijah cried. Where people identified with God cling to deep double-mindedness, they empower a two-headed snake.

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Resentment and its victims: Hate without cause

  • Post published:May 28, 2025
  • Post category:Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:May 28, 2025

Resentment may seem harmless. It may seem justified. Yet it is toxic and often misdirected. Whether it’s simmering within you or aimed at you, it’s hurting you.

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Love story? Fairy-tale life? The abuse in Esther

  • Post published:April 11, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 9, 2026

Have we seen Queen Esther as a beloved wife, living a fairy-tale life? If so, we’ve missed the abuse in her story and a surprising key to reigning in life.

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When evil seems invincible: Two surprising sources of hope

  • Post published:November 9, 2023
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing
  • Post last modified:March 28, 2026

Where two malignant narcissists ruled, so did ruthlessness. Where evil seemed invincible, Mordecai and Esther seized on two surprising sources of hope and life.

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Illusionists! The abusers we have not seen

  • Post published:August 17, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:October 16, 2025

Some illusionists fool us to amuse us. Abusers and abusive systems fool us to control us. Freedom and life hinge on seeing the illusionists we have not seen.

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Treachery and divorce: When God sees betrayal

  • Post published:June 15, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:May 19, 2025

If you have been betrayed by a spouse: The God who sees you has been there. He hates treachery. He calls out the treacherous - and he defends the betrayed.

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