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Seeing and healing from what is toxic in the church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

Rumpled gray cat staring with traumatized eyes, beside a tree.

Trauma needs witness – lessons from a frazzled cat

  • Post published:February 21, 2026
  • Post category:Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:August 18, 2026

How a frazzled cat crash-landing into a treetop helped me see that trauma needs witness. How God reminded me: He does that for us.

My mother lies in her nursing-home bed, her upper body and head elevated. I sit beside her bed, reading her a psalm. She knows who I am, and she watches me, but not with delight.

Newborn: Search for a parent’s love

  • Post published:June 22, 2025
  • Post category:My Story/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:August 20, 2026

Mama’s story ended where it should have begun, after so many tries to rewrite the start. And both of us still looking for a parent’s love.

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People of God, befriend the forsaken

  • Post published:March 8, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:August 18, 2026

What I learned late: How often God commits himself to defend the forsaken. How strongly he urges his people to befriend the forsaken.

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Defender of the forsaken – this is God

  • Post published:February 20, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:August 17, 2026

The Lord sees when the vulnerable are abandoned. He hears when the helpless cry to him. And he acts. Defender of the forsaken – this is God.

On a map of earthquake activity in central Oklahoma in February 2024, a stunning array of overlapping circles of three colors and various sizes arc from northeast to southwest.

Earthquakes, trauma – and silences that erase

  • Post published:March 7, 2024
  • Post category:My Story/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:August 18, 2026

Any eerie silence that minimizes or denies an earthquake - or any other trauma someone is facing - shouts to those willing to hear: Look deeper. Ask, Why?

Divorcing: Orange-handled scissors cut apart a marriage certificate with a long-stemmed orange-yellow rose lying across it.

Divorcing: When God does what he hates

  • Post published:July 7, 2023
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:August 20, 2026

Scripture shows: The Lord hates divorcing his people. Yet at times, he’s responded to nonstop betrayals by doing just that.

The face of the betrayed: wilted sunflower "face" seen through shattered glass

Treachery and divorce: When God sees betrayal

  • Post published:June 15, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:August 20, 2026

If you've been betrayed by a spouse: The Lord has been there. He hates treachery. He calls out the treacherous. And he defends the betrayed.

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    • The Esther Blessing: Grace to Reign in Life
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