Shunning in the church

Any group that shuns is withholding your deepest needs in order to control you. That’s the opposite of loving you. It’s people you trusted, trying to erase you.

The most unwanted assignment

  • Post category:My Story
  • Post last modified:November 4, 2023

Sitting in my car at that gas station on that winter afternoon, staring at Isaiah 58:1, I began to cry ... Oh. Lord. Not. This. Assignment.

Journey to a divided heart

In the beginning, a divided heart may look very much like an undivided one. It’s as if you’ve reached a subtle fork in the road, where the two paths before you appear to run side-by-side. It seems you can take both paths at the same time. It seems you don’t have to choose. Lord, help us to learn from a king who did not.

Celebrating God at his appointed times

  • Post category:Times and Seasons
  • Post last modified:October 7, 2025

Long ago, God designed three times of celebration, times when his people, still today, can say to the press and the stress of life: “You wait a minute, while I delight in the Lord.”

The flappable Deborah Bread

  • Post category:Living LifeMy Story
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2025

Something deep within me cries to be unflappable. But, as this incident from years ago reminds me, flapping can lead to laughing.

A validation blessing

  • Post category:Living Life
  • Post last modified:March 13, 2024

“O my dove, in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places of the mountain crags, let me see your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely.” (Song 2:14 NET)