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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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This “good Christian girl” is a woman now

  • Post published:August 1, 2024
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 21, 2025

I was a “good Christian girl” until well into middle age. Then, God led me where I did not want to go, to show me what I desperately needed to see.

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Code blue! God’s cry to the breathless

  • Post published:July 16, 2024
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:July 19, 2024

Any time, ever, that you find yourself lying broken and spent, the Lord has a message for you. It’s his cry to wake you, and his promise to revive and restore.

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Women, prophecy and the church

  • Post published:December 14, 2023
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

"A woman with the gift of prophecy has to be very careful," the preacher said. "What she hears from God, she is not to speak but to take to her prayer closet.”

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Code blue! Breathing crises in the church

  • Post published:November 2, 2023
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:July 16, 2024

When God’s people push against, instead of moving with, his Spirit, he knows the situation is dire. He sounds the alarm: My people aren’t breathing! Code blue!

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Breath of God – key to life

  • Post published:October 27, 2023
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:July 16, 2024

Receiving and releasing the Breath of God is key to getting the toxins out and the life-giving stuff in, no matter what you're going through.

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Trauma and truth-seeking: Desperation, spirit, life

  • Post published:March 8, 2023
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2025

You pursue truth differently when you're desperate, when your life hinges on what you find – and your spirit is released to resonate with the Spirit of God.

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Witchcraft in the church

  • Post published:September 16, 2022
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 7, 2025

In the church, those obsessed with manipulating, intimidating and dominating can pose as those serving God. And we can be very fooled for a very long time.

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Living by the Spirit

  • Post published:July 30, 2022
  • Post category:Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:January 13, 2025

A person can be a Christian, yet not live by the Spirit. Ah, but that's not what our Lord intends.

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Dear weary one, can we talk about the spirit realm?

  • Post published:July 22, 2022
  • Post category:From: Return to Your Rest/Spirit-to-spirit with God
  • Post last modified:December 8, 2024

When it comes to dealing with anything spirit, the church has a long history of ignoring, twisting, adding to and taking away from the truth that gives us rest.

Continue ReadingDear weary one, can we talk about the spirit realm?
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Whatever happened to loving one another?

  • Post published:July 31, 2021
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 8, 2025

Our Lord is building his church. He told us what is key. “Love one another,” he said. When that is happening, all that embodies Christ’s love flows both ways.

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